My boyfriend & me have been having great sex near no problems for the past five months. But recently he has not be able to ejaculate, it doesn't matter if we are having sexual intercourse or oral sex. He keep telling me I'm doing nothing wrong, but yet I surface like I'm doing nothing right either! We usually enjoy sex everyday, could we be having sex too often?
Boyfriend is not competent to ejaculate during sex next to me.?
That is a bit of the strange one Karen.... it sounds like you've be going along pretty good for five months but recently he has not be able to ejaculate.... he didn't quite say how long this is be happening. Considering the fact that he was competent to before I would say that you're doing everything right. You say you've be having sex every day my question would be does he ejaculate sometimes. Each man have a different recovery time. That time is the time between when he can ejaculate again. Now when young guys especially need a unmarked one they can usually do quite a bit but adds that relationship continues the recovery time seem to spand outward. That newness excitement level has dropped.... for males this is completely common. Since most guys ejaculate pretty quickly the fact that yours can hang down in there and not ejaculate certainly have some good sides to it. But I can understand your frustration and not being competent to make him orgasm. If he is ejaculating sometimes but not every time like perchance every couple days then I might think this is normal for someone that have been dating for five months and having sex every day. As someone pointed out his repossession time will certainly be longer if these masturbating or having any other type of relationship. A simple test of adjectives him off sexually for couple of days will work. By doing this you should build up and be very ready and specifically orgasm. If not I would be a bit concerned that something else is draining his "energy" Advice Man